We’ve never done this before. What can we expect?

We’ve never done this before. What can we expect?

All couples have two kinds of problems to solve: there are differences to work out and there are processes of communication for doing so. If the communication isn’t working, it’s impossible to work out the differences. Usually communication doesn’t work when stress responses—fight or flight—interfere. I help couples manage their stress responses and learn new ways to communicate, so that they can understand and work out their differences. With this as a foundation, friendship and intimacy can grow and thrive.